Essay: Wisdom


Michelle Mantor and “Remy” – Published in Houston PetTalk, December Issue, 2009 Photo by Evin Thayer


I’ve had many pets throughout my lifetime.  Although I loved them all, a few were uniquely special. When we get a pet, we don’t know what our relationship will be but when we are fortunate enough to have one that transcends many others, it’s an extraordinary journey.
I’m lucky enough to have one of those unique relationships with my Briard, Remy. From the time she was a puppy, I found myself thinking of her as an old soul. She always seems to know what to do in various situations. Her ability to discern between when to protect, when to accept, when to have fun or simply when to stay out of the way are always on target.
What I’ve come to realize is that she has something many of my other pets didn’t have: wisdom. Having good intuition, judgment and perception are all part of being wise and Remy has shown time and again that she knows what to do, often before I do.
When my children were small, she was gentle and although she is a big dog, she had an amazing gracefulness and agility when it came to not stepping on crawling babies. As the children grew and moved from the nursery downstairs to a bedroom upstairs, she would position herself at the foot of the stairs each night , standing ready to protect her “herd” if needed.
Being the animal lover that I am, other pets were inevitably brought into the house. Some she likes (our Yorkie mix, Sake), some she doesn’t (our Maltese mix, Friday) and others she simply ignored (our guinea pig, Petunia). But no matter what her personal feelings are, she still protects them and accepts them as part of the family.
She equally knows when to be nice to a stranger and when to say “back off”. We once had her in our Suburban and by taking a wrong turn, ended up somewhere we didn’t want to be. Several young men, looking like they were up to no-good, started to approach our car. After her award-winning performance as Kujo the Killer Dog, they wisely went the other direction.
One her greatest displays of wisdom is knowing when to be humorous. She has several very funny antics, one of which is charging our little dogs and just at the last second, jumping over them. The little dogs don’t find this nearly as humorous as Remy and I. She always turns to look at me and I would swear she is laughing with me. Of course, whenever I’m feeling blue, she pulls out her funniest tricks as if to say, “I want to make you feel better and laughter is the best medicine.” Very wise indeed.
Now, in the sunset of her life, she has slowed down considerably and in just the last few months has become somewhat of an invalid. I’ve carried her hind legs in a sling to help her get outside, I’ve cleaned many “accidents”, given her daily medications, spoiled her with home cooked food and made her a special bed in the kitchen.
I’ve had the most spectacular 14 years with her…more than I could have ever hoped for. I love her immensely. But I know the time is near that she will no longer lie at my feet as I work on the computer. I used to fear having to make a decision to let her go but I’ve come to realize that she will tell me when she is ready. She knows my heart will be torn and she will relieve me of the decision. Her wisdom will guide us to the very end, just as it has for her lifetime.

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